Return to the simple Joy of Connection

Marriage and Relationship Counselling, Perth

Relationship Coaching and upskilling to create the relationship you want.

Debbrah Oxby
Debbrah Oxby

Remember your deep connection?

An unbeatable team, that has each other’s backs and does life together. Best friends who jointly dream and achieve their goals. Whole, happy, people with inner peace and security. That role model couple with passion and intimacy. A shared life of colour, adventure, possibility, and love.

Right now, you might be feeling:

• Unappreciated
• Disconnected and lonely
• Exhausted
• Stuck
• Overwhelmed
• Anxious and afraid
• Frustrated
• Like every conversation turns into an argument
• More like a roommate than a lover

Yet, I know that you’re also feeling hopeful

Why? Because you’re here …

I’ve got great news for you

It’s totally possible to Reconnect,

Rebuild and Reignite Your Love!
You can learn new Relationship and Communication Skills.
You can Thrive and have Fun again.
(Even better, it doesn’t have to be more “work” than constant arguing is)

Get started now and find out how you can stop arguing and start loving each other again.

hi great to meet you,

I’m Debbrah

Relationship Coach, Marriage Counsellor, Perth, australia.

Please know this: you’re not alone.

Not only have I coached hundreds of individuals and couples but we go on the journey together and my genuine understanding, empathy and compassion is always along for the ride.

Debbrah Oxby

The quality of our relationships determine the quality of our lives — for ourselves and our children

I’m a relationship and marriage counsellor and coach working with couples in Perth, Australia and internationally,  both online and in person. I am on a mission to partner with individuals and couples in building authentic, healthy, connected relationships. I help you restore the love, so you’re back on the same beautiful page, having fun together again.

I formed The Relationship Collective because I’ve come to know — truly, intimately know — the importance of making time to understand each other, to communicate mindfully, and build a relationship where we can all flourish and feel loved.

Knowing the impact of the work we do in our own relationship, on our happiness as individuals, as a couple, and as a family, it brings me great joy to support couples and families to achieve a deep sense of connection and happiness of their own.

When you work with me, it’s about more than just understanding what’s happening. We explore your shared vision for the future and create the plan you need to bring it into reality. We work together to build your skills — developing new strategies and ways of communicating — to build a strong and loving relationship.

Debbrah Oxby

What’s my story?

I’m a woman who cares deeply.
I speak my mind. I say and do the brave things.

I know the ups and downs of living “A Brady Bunch” life because I’m a wife, a mother of two, and stepmother of four. Today, I’m living an authentically fulfilled life in Perth, continuously co-building the relationship of my dreams but my story hasn’t always been one of idyllic family life.

My parents’ divorce, while just an infant, led to being raised in the care of my single mother. A relationship, family and successful business built with my husband disintegrated in my thirties and I found myself in shock. Alone. Without a home, business, or income. I was a single parent raising two very young children — and witnessing the impact of my relationship on their development.

Yet, I knew that if it was to be, it was up to me. So, I dug deep, drew on my resilient spirit. I used my vision, life wisdom, skills and adaptability to rebuild. A successful business. A new brick and tile home. And a level of financial independence that meant I could. Most importantly for me, I stayed true to my strong family values so my children were raised in a stable, loving, positive and successful environment.

Many years later, I took a chance on love once again. In this marriage, the art of blending families has gifted us all an enriching learning experience. We practice the relationship skills that I share with my clients.

Empathy. Experience. Knowledge.

When you are selecting a coach for your relationship or marriage counselling, knowing they have empathy for your situation and practical experience in coaching is vital. You want to know that they utilise proven approaches and best practice.

I’ve personally experienced relationship rebuilding, parenting, co-parenting and blending families, and I have years of experience working with amazing people, just like you.

I also LOVE learning so when you work with me, you benefit from the significant investment I continually make in my professional development in relationship counselling.

Qualified to help you create the relationship of your hearts’ desire

  • Diploma Professional Coaching (ICF approved)
  • Diploma Ericksonian Hypnotherapy, Cognitive Psychotherapy & NLP
  • Accredited “Your Relationship Roadmap” Facilitator
  • Gottman Method Level 1 Clinical Training Couples Therapy

I’m also a grateful receiver of lifelong mentoring from many international personal development professionals. Along with my current mentors, Dr. Shefali Tsabary and Suzi Lula, they’ve all enhanced my capabilities, professional and personally.

Find out if we are a good fit, so you can stop arguing and start loving each other again.

Let’s work together

 

Yes, You Really Can Have the Life and Relationship You Dream Of!

I’ve got a serious hunch that, whether you realise it or not, like most of us, you’ve swiped your credit card on the fairy tale. We meet that special someone, fall in love, and live happily ever after. The End.

Not only does this almost never turn out to be the case, it’s rarely the way we grow.

Crisis and conflict are an expression of an unmet desire to deeply connect.
They are an opportunity to create a space for both of you to feel seen, heard, and understood.

Love is a verb.  Learning and practicing key relationship skills with each other is how we invite our partner to receive this amazing gift.
I can’t wait to show you how.

Are you ready?

Empower You

INDIVIDUAL
COACHING 

A transformative journey with our Empower You Individual Coaching Package, where self-discovery meets unparalleled support. In the midst of life’s challenges, our coaching acts as a guiding light, helping you not only navigate the complexities but also thrive in the process. We are committed to unlocking your full potential.

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COUPLES COUNSELING
& COACHING

Navigating the complexities of a relationship can be challenging, but you don’t have to face it alone. Our Couples Counseling section offers two powerful programs, Relationship Reset and Relationship Revive, carefully curated by our experienced relationship coach to guide couples toward deeper understanding, effective communication, and lasting happiness.

The Love Blueprint

UNITE COUPLES RETREAT PACKAGE

The Unite Couples Retreat is Debb’s premium package and perfect for couples that are really ready,  deeply committed and serious about creating life long change so they and their family can be truly happy, feel loved, cared for and have an amazing life together. If being the best role model to your children is deeply important this is for you.  This package is a combination of learning the tools and skills to upgrade your life and relationship, and having private sessions with Debb to have that third person accountability,  support and direction .

Empower You

SELF-PACED
COURSES

Our Self-Paced Courses are crafted  to empower individuals to unlock the secrets of thriving relationships. Dive into
The Communication Cure and The Love Blueprint IGNITE Program, two comprehensive courses designed to ignite passion, understanding, and fulfillment in your romantic life.

What couples say

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Find out if we are a good fit so you can

Stop Arguing and

Start Loving Each Other Again

Get started building the relationship you dreams of today!

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