Debbrah Oxby

Debbrah Oxby

Your Relationship Specialist

If you are feeling disconnected, bored or unhappy in your relationship, you are not alone. If you don’t want to see your family breakdown and know things can’t continue as they are, you are not alone.

I’m Debbrah Oxby and it is my mission to partner with couples to build authentic, happy, healthy, connected and thriving relationships.

I help couples to transform crisis and conflict into deep connection, where you both feel heard, understood and your needs are met.

My experience working with clients has shown me, time and again, that true success in life is rooted in the quality of connection we have in our relationships.

My Story

Who am I?

I am a woman who cares deeply. Who speaks her mind and says (and does) the brave things. And I know the ups and downs of living a ‘Brady Bunch’ life – wife, mother of two and stepmother of four.

I bring genuine understanding, empathy and compassion for all things Relationship, Rebuilding, Parenting, Co-parenting and Blending Family from my own personal experience, as well as my professional learning and expertise.

My story has not been one of idyllic family life. It began with my parents’ divorce in my infancy, the challenges of growing up with the care of my single mother. And after building a relationship, family and successful business with my husband, dealing with the shock of a marriage that had disintegrated – finding myself alone, no home, no business, no income and solely responsible for raising two very young children – and seeing the impact of my relationship on their development.

As a single parent I knew that if it was to be it was up to me. So, I dug deep, drew on my resilient spirit, vision, life wisdom, skills and adaptability to build a successful business, a new home, and creating a level of financial independence again. And most importantly to me, creating and upholding strong family values so my children were raised in a stable, loving, positive and successful environment.

Many years later I took a chance on love again. In this marriage, the joining of our families has bought a rich learning ourselves along with art of blending families. We have truly come to know the importance of making time to understand each other, to communicate and to build a relationship where we both flourish and feel loved.

I really understand the importance of doing “everything” you can to create a healthy,
happy relationship for you, your partner and your children.

Knowing the impact of the work we do in our relationship on our happiness as individuals, a couple and a family, it gives me great joy to support couples and families achieve a deep sense of connection and happiness.

“The Quality of Our Relationships Determines the Quality of Our Lives and Our Children’s Lives”.

Experience & Empathy Backed-up By Expert Knowledge

When you select your relationship coach, knowing that they have empathy for your situation and practical experience in coaching is vital. You want to know that they utilise proven approaches and best practice.

I’ve personally experienced relationship rebuilding, conscious parenting, co-parenting and blending families and I have years of experience with with amazing people, just like you.

I also LOVE learning so when you work with me, you benefit the significant investment I continually make in my professional and personal development, which has also included many overseas conferences in America, Europe, England and New Zealand. In fact the photos you see on my website where taken in Florence whilst I was attending a training conference.

I ‘m a grateful receiver of lifelong learning from many personal development professionals  such as Wayne Dyer, Louise Hay, Eckhart Tolle,   Dr John Demartini, Brene Brown, Brandon Bays,  to name a few. My current mentors Dr. John Gottman (Gottman Institute)  Dr. Shefali Tsabary  (Conscious Parenting) and Suzi Lula  my Spiritual Mentor all  together enhance my capabilities, both professional and personally.

Find out if we are a good fit, and how you can stop arguing and start loving again.

Book your 30 minute Free Call Now.

Qualified to help you create the relationship and life of your heart’s desire

  • Diploma Professional Coaching (ICF approved)
  • Ontological Coaching
  • Diploma Ericksonian Hypnotherapy, Cognitive Psychotherapy & NLP
  • Accredited Your Relationship Roadmap Facilitator
  • Gottman Method Level 1 Clinical Training Couples Therapy
  • Access Consciousness Bars Facilitator and Practitioner

“Debb is so relatable and has so much empathy and understanding for others which allows her to connect with anyone at a deep and meaningful level “.

Private Client

“Debb genuinely cares about people, provides a safe place for people to move through their triggers and delivers her message in a very kind way.”

VM Private Client

"Debb truly helps you see your own story within your relationship and provides easy steps to re-frame your thinking and up-skill your communication so you can have the relationship your heart desires, Highly recommend."

A.B.

Why My Relationship
Coaching Works?

When you work with me, it’s about more than understanding what is happening. We explore your shared vision for the future and create the plan to transform that into a reality. We work together to build your skills – developing new strategies and ways of communicating to build a strong and loving relationship.

Prioritise your happiness and your relationship.

Get started building the

relationship you dreams of today!